I remember mum & dad locking the doors from the outside, so my brother & I wouldnt leave the house during the 8 hours they were working during the school holidays. We were given a ‘to do ‘ list of activities, chores, & food to eat with strict instructions to finish all cleaning before mum came home at 3pm.
I think this is the main reason I chose to be a SAHM, so my kids werent home alone during the holidays -now that I have 2 in school, im feeling twice the pressure in ensuring the kids are enjoying their school holidays.
We sat with the kids making a list of activities they’d like to do including – bowling, movies & Mcdonalds, but today I woke up dead tired with a sore body. It got me thinking, are school holidays really about entertaining the kids or have we been sucked into ‘playground politics’ – ” I did this & that in my holidays & what did you do???”…
Remember our first day back at school, all the comparing, criticizing & teasing that went on when one didnt like what you did or vice versa.
I sometimes feel as if im trying way too hard to stop my kids from being bullied & trying to hard to make them the “it” kids at school or maybe its just me trying to relive my primary years again the way it should have been.
Living in the technology era doesnt help us parents either, with a new WII, PS or DSI game each term holiday, kids wanting to watch movies only when they cant be bothered using their imagination or playing IPOD in bed instead of reading.
This morning when I woke up in aches & pains I thought to myself, maybe its a great day to just sit at home but then guilt came over me, not to mention a messy house image in my head AAAGGHHHHH…..my mum never told me parenting was so much work & energy in all levels..!!!
Are you a mum who takes the holidays each day as it comes or is it a must to have them out & about each day? Either way how do you keep your stress levels down & energy high????
















































